Kim Kardashian has filed divorce’s case against Kris Humphries

Kim Kardashian has filed a suit for divorce from NBA player Kris Humphries - only10 weeks after her star-studded, made-for-TV marriage, refer to conflicting disparities.

I hope everybody appreciates this was not a painless choice," said the Keeping Up With The Kardashians star in a statement. "I had wished this marriage was always but for a while things don't exercises as planned."

The suit in Los Angeles County Superior Court given some explanations, except to say the couple has a pre-marriage contract that will state how they share their properties.

Kim is inquiring that both sides pay their personal lawful costs and that a judge terminate Kris' rights to spousal sustain.

Kardashian, 31, and Humphries, 26, were got marriage on August 20 at a generous private parkland near Santa Barbara, California.

It was the first wedding for Kris, who last played for the NBA's New Jersey Nets, and the second for Kim, who was wedded to music producer Damon Thomas from 2000 to 2004.

Kim's sisters and TV co-stars Kourtney Kardashian, 32, and Khloe Kardashian, 27, given out as co-maids of honor.

Kim and Kris started dating late previous year and pronounced their engagement in May. He offered on bended knee with a 20.5-carat ring by spelling out "Will you marry me?" in rose petals.

The couple's wedding was the matter of a both-part particular on E! Entertainment Television, which broadcasts Kardashian's show that goes after the model and her family.

Court filings appear that Kim signed the petition on Sunday. The reality starlet said she and Humphries "remain friends and desire each other the finest".

Project 31 ~ What Jesus has taught me...

Day 10: What has Jesus taught you as a wife, mom or friend?

Jesus has taught me many things.

Christ embodies love, sacrifice, kindness, humility, surrender, compassion and so many inspiring traits, but the one thing that Jesus has taught me more than any other is forgiveness.

And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. (Ephesians 4:32)

Forgiveness is freedom!

We forgive people for their actions. We forgive life for throwing curveballs our way. We forgive ourselves for making mistakes. We forgive God when we have moments that make us question our circumstances.

Choosing to forgive has made me a better wife. It makes my marriage fun and carefree. It means that even when we disagree, we can quickly get over it.

I love my husband too much to remain angry.

Choosing to forgive has also made me a better mom. Even though I am no longer with my ex husband, my daughter sees that we get along. As she matures, she will know that we loved her enough to forgive each other for the past. Too many children suffer because of divorce. The parents choose to stay angry, the kids know all of the details of the divorce, they are thrown in the middle of arguments and the children end up having issues of their own.

I love my daughter too much to remain angry.

Choosing to forgive has also made me a better person. Life gets complicated. I have made many mistakes in this life, but I forgive myself. I have given myself a chance to start over and I encourage others to do the same.

I love myself too much to remain angry.  

Do not choose to be bitter, choose to be better.

We become bitter because we hold onto our hurts, but everyone has hurts. 

Choose Forgiveness.

Forgiveness makes us stronger. There is a misconception that forgiveness makes us weak. That when we forgive we are giving in to another person that tried to hurt us or a hardship that tried to bring us down. People believe that if we stay angry we are tough, but anger does not make us tough. Anger makes us unhappy and unhappiness makes us weak, and let us be honest, angry people are no fun to be around.

I have not seen an episode of Doctor Phil in forever, but yesterday, the show looked intense and so I kept it on. At the end of the show, Dr. Phil said these words,

"You don't forgive the people that deserve it. You forgive the people that YOU deserve to be free of. You deserve to forgive them. It does not mean that what they did was okay or that he/she deserves your forgiveness, it means that you refuse to invest your life and energy on them! Tell yourself this situation needs a hero and it's going to be me."

It was such a powerful ending.

He is telling us to set ourselves free. Forgive, not for them. Forgive for us.

The easy thing to do, the weak thing to do, is to stay angry. Anger, hate, bitterness...those are easy emotions. Forgiving and loving those who have sinned against us is hard work, but it is possible.

To do this we have to remove our pride, but who needs pride anyway?

We don't need to be proud, we need to be humble, we need to be grateful.

When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom. (Proverbs 11:2)

We need to realize that everything we have and everything that we accomplish is because of God.

Every good and perfect gift is from above. (James 1:17)

Christ loves us and He wants us to let go of our hurts.

He wants us to forgive.

He will give us the strength to do so.

Jesus helped me to let go of my hurts and to forgive.

If you have not done so already, I challenge you to let go of yours!

Do not focus on all of the ways that she/he hurt you.

Do not hold on to the fact that not all of your prayers have been answered.

Don't hold on to all of the illnesses that have affected your family.

Don't focus on the losses you have suffered.

Just let go and let God.

It really is empowering...

Allow yourself to forgive.

Allow yourself to let go.

Allow yourself to be free.

Allow Christ to work miracles in your life.

Keep Stepping (A Poem about Moving On)

I wish I could take your pain away,

I wish I could tell you that she (or he),

Is not worth another second of your time,

A good spouse, a good partner, a good friend,

Doesn’t do that to someone they love,
A person of strong character, sound mind, and a healthy spirit,
Doesn’t do that to anyone,

Anyone can promise to love you,
But only the worthy, know how,
To truly care for another person,
They know, that a person’s heart,
Is a special treasure.
That they have received,
And they value it,
They know that commitment should not be taken lightly,
And another’s feelings should never be disregarded,
They know that while words matter, actions matter more,
They know that no one is perfect,
Yet, still they strive to be perfect,
For you,
Because they love you,
Because they love, that you love them,

As your heart begins to heal,
You will make your way back out into the world,
You will meet some,
You will meet few,
You will meet many,
Each story is different,
But no matter who or how many you meet,
Just know, that you will want to rush it,
You will miss the comfort of another’s arms,
You will want to hold someone again,
And to be held,
But when you feel yourself falling, you will stop yourself,
Because you will remember the pain,
The loss,
The emptiness,

You will meet one that you like, one that likes you, and one that you could love,
You will meet one that needs your love, one that does not know how to love,
and one that loves too freely,
But you will take your time,
You will listen to their hearts and to yours,
You will hear what they say and pay close attention to what they do,
You will ask about their life before you, because it affects their life with you,
You will find out what and who they value,
And you will hear about the love that they lost,
You will listen closely, because history sometimes repeats itself,
But you, having experienced this pain,
Will not let your history happen again,

You will be careful and wait for someone who is worthy,
You will know who uses your love,
Only for what they can gain from it,
You will know that she who does not even love herself,
Cannot love you back,
You will not settle for an okay love,
Because this time you seek the one,
The one that will learn all about your heart,
And how to take care of it,
This person will sometimes make mistakes,
As do you,
But their mistakes will not be deep,
They will not cause hurts that damage your spirit,
They will not carve away at the trust,
They will be shallow, everyday mistakes,
That do not hurt much,
Still that person will be apologetic,
Because that person,
That worthy person,
Will love you so much that they cannot bear to see you hurt
Even a little,

But, even without having found, that person,
You will still find yourself happy,
You will love yourself,
Delight in the alone time,
You will enjoy the quiet in the house,
Your thoughts will amuse you,
Your ideas will inspire you,
Your memories will no longer haunt you,
You will benefit from conversations with friends,
Books, movies and music will be pleasant, because you choose them,
Bible verses will take on a new meaning and will speak to your soul,
You will eat when you want, sleep when you want,
And laugh at the things that you find humorous,
You will learn more about yourself,
Things that you had forgotten,
Things from your past that you used to like so much,
You will fall back in love with you,
All that you are,
And all that you have to offer,

You will be happy again,
At times, you will remember your past,
And as you think of the love of your past,
You will remember the hurt,
And how it felt like nothing else in the world mattered,
And how no one would ever compare to that person,
But this time you will smile,
Because you will know that it was not true,
It was not true then,
And it is not true now,

Life can get blurry,
Love can be obscure,
Our destiny, unknown,
But our future is in our hands,
And our life is what we make of it,
But when we are so wrapped up in what we want,
We cannot see what we need,
And when we focus on what we do not have,
We forget to be grateful for the things that we do,
So remember as much as you want love,
Do not rush it,
Do not hurry it,
And definitely do not wait on it,

Live your life,
Love your life,
And embrace the now,
Value the blessings,
Be appreciative for change,
Be thankful for your broken heart,
Because to feel is to live,
To live is to learn,
To learn is to grow,
And soon, you will grow into the person that God desires you to be,

Each day that you wake,
Each tear that you cry,
Leads you one step closer to your happiness,

So keep stepping…