Make a Conscious effort to Appreciate Him

Oh yes, ladies! We have all been there. At one point in time when our husband offers to help us with something, but the minute he does, we want him to do it differently. Maybe he did not strain the grease from the meat before adding the pasta sauce, or maybe he is not folding the towels exactly the way you want him to, but don't complain. I repeat do not complain. This is a tough one. We women tend to have a method  to our madness. We do things a certain way and we begin to think that our way is the best way. The truth is that our way is not better, it is just different.

I've seen many women criticize their men when they are trying to help, instead of just appreciating the fact that he is helping. Watching others has made me aware of this issue. Each day, I make a conscious effort to appreciate my husband for his efforts. We all should. Instead of focusing on how your man is doing it, focus on why he is doing it. Our men pitch in and help, because they love us!

So tomorrow when your husband sits down next to you on the sofa all stinky and dirty after a hard day of work, you could nag at him to go take a shower, or you could grin and bear it. At least, he is not the man that showers the minute he gets home to wash off the smell of his mistress. He might be a stinky dirty man, but he is your stinky dirty man! Aren’t you lucky?